I feel like nowadays, getting pregnant young is becoming less and less of the norm. I was wanted to be a mom early on in life, and was finally blessed with getting pregnant at 20 (now 21). I mention my age because the younger you are, the more common you are associated with being naive. BUT, I don't think any age would properly prepare you for the unknown world of pregnancy!
I have been super blessed with an "easy" pregnancy. I'm not at high risk, I never experienced morning sickness, and so far me and baby have been very healthy. I put easy in quotations, because even without those complications, these 8 months haven't gone without a hitch! I have learned A LOT about being pregnant and how much your body truly changes for 9 months. Here is what they don't tell you about pregnancy, so hopefully you don't go in as blind as I did!
You can smell everything.
This can be a good and bad thing. I can sniff out if someone has chocolate (my newest craving thanks to pregnancy), but you can also smell if someone left rotten eggs in their trash or if something is a day expired. Your sense of smell is so heightened, and this can be a major downfall if you experience morning sickness!
I only ever experienced heartburn eating hot cheetos. But now, I experience it 25/7. No, that's not a typo. Be prepared and carry Tums in your purse at all times, I learned that the hard way.
You won't be able to sit, stand, or lay down.
Everything will now be super uncomfortable. Standing will make your feet swell, sitting down will make you feel super uncomfortable and like you can't breathe, and laying down will never be the same. Invest in an exercise ball as soon as you can and don't put off buying a body pillow of some sorts. Laying on your left side is your best bet, but even then it will sometimes fail you and you'll wonder why you weren't more thankful for your nights of solid sleep before pregnancy. It's totally normal to struggle getting up from your chair and having your husband push you out of bed.
Discomfort Down There.
Going along with getting up from a laying position, what they won't tell you is you might feel a sharp pain that feels like your lower half is going to just separate. Seriously, you may feel like your just going to split in half. But it's totally cool it's just your body getting ready to deliver a baby.
Remember those maternity clothes you invested in to last you your entire pregnancy? Yeah, those will stop fitting you at one point too. You will just get to the point of wearing your husband's shirts or being okay with showing some belly. I don't know who invented the maternity pants with the built in band, but I wish they would've taken into consideration that you already feel like a whale and don't need a spandex band constricting you even more. I highly recommend living in flowy dresses if weather permits.
Your Boobs Will Hurt.
Think the soreness starts when baby has been delivered? Oh, we are so wrong! You will feel sore, heavy, and sometimes leak way before your little bundle of joy arrives. Don't be under the impression it only happens when you begin breastfeeding, your body enjoys practicing your pain tolerance early on.
Before getting pregnant, I had never heard of "braxton hicks". Is he some country singer?! If only. It depends on how early you will start feeling this, but your belly will randomly become rock hard and sometimes it can be very uncomfortable and even painful. It can happen for a variety of reasons too, which makes this whole pregnancy/labor game more fun. It can come and go whenever it pleases, last however long, and will eventually lead into real contractions that involve heavier cramping and back pain.
Shaving is an Olympic Sport.
No one warned me that the days of shaving my legs would no longer be the same. You better trust your balance and feel confident in just feeling around, be comfortable with using a mirror, or get the courage to ask your husband for help. Or you can get smart and have someone wax it for you, since your hair will grow at rapid speed.
Everything Makes you Tired.
Walking from the car to your front door? Panting. Getting up to use the bathroom for the fourth time? Exhausting. Walking up and down your stairs more than once? Forget about it. Everything you took for granted before, will now make you so exhausted and you may or may not get out of breath from normal everyday activities.
Especially if you are blessed with short genes, driving will not be quite the task. Being able to reach the pedals and steering wheel with a huge belly between you? Better to save up for an uber now. You will learn to lean back in your seat and reach as far as you can.
Gassiness is the New Classiness.
You will have more gas than you would ever like to have and also sometimes have no control over it. Start practicing on blaming the dog now, because it will be bad. I was never told this, and found myself burping even after drinking water or eating normal foods.
Strangers Will Want to Touch the Belly.
Not only will they want to touch your belly, but they will ask how far along are you, when you are due, what gender is it, what's the baby's name, and what have your cravings been. They mean well, don't worry, but I definitely wasn't prepared to be bombarded with questions as I waddle around the grocery store.
This is just a short list of what I really didn't know about pregnancy.
What are some things you found out while adventuring into motherhood?
I'd love to hear your real, honest, and probably funny stories! Embrace your pregnancy and every little fun thing you learn along the way. This is such a special time, and sometimes you need to find the humor in the uncomfortable situations!
So, you may or may not have noticed that I have been a little absent from my blog... Well, The Strattons have moved! Last weekend we closed on our forever home and moved in, we wanted to keep it a big surprise until it was all said and done.
We moved for a whole list of reasons: we didn't like our neighborhood and safety was constantly a concern. After moving in and shortly after finding out I was pregnant, we both started panicking about raising our baby in that area and the house quickly felt way too small to grow our family into.
We fell in love with our house the day we saw it. It was kind of a now or never decision with me being pregnant, and not wanting to move after having a baby. So, I moved while 8 months pregnant! haha This home has been such a joy to unpack and decorate, because it finally feels like we can breathe and take everything out of their boxes. It's been a long time coming and I feel so at peace to finally feel like we found the one, and I can begin nesting!
I have been focusing mainly on her nursery and have made a lot of progress! Well, as much as I can being 7 weeks away from delivering and barely able to bend over! Here are some sneak peek photos of her nursery so far, and I also finally did another pregnancy update which was way overdue!
My family came into town this week and my mom was kind enough to take some maternity photos of me! Okay, let's be real: she insisted we take maternity photos haha! I am totally not complaining, because I have been dying to wear my new Pink Blush Maternity dress ever since I ordered it a few weeks ago. I am in love with the bohemian look and my mom and I had a vision for how we wanted everything.
I am so excited about how these turned out, and can't believe how big my belly is getting! We are in the homestretch, with me turning 33 weeks tomorrow. I really can't see myself making it full term, but I'm sure baby S will prove me wrong. We had an HD ultrasound this week and I didn't think it was possible to love her even more. Seeing her face so clearly was just amazing, but it is so hard to tell who she will look like! From some angles she would look like me, and others she looked so much like J. Guess we'll just see when she gets here!
Now how can you get the perfect bohemian maternity photoshoot? Read below!
Step 1: Find an earthy location
We went to a nearby spot that not only has a pond, but also an array of different trees. The background sets the stage for the mood of the photoshoot, so we went with a location that had a lot of earth tones and greenery.
Step Two: Wear a flowy dress
This dress has been on my wishlist for awhile, and I knew it would be so perfect for my photoshoot in mind! I didn't want a completely flowy dress that would hide my curves and bump, so this dress was a happy medium! It is tight in all the right places and the trim is very flowy and moves great for a photoshoot! You can purchase yours here.
Step Three: Add a headpiece
A flower crown, stone headpiece, or feathers are a great touch for a bohemian look! What's great about adding a headpiece is it can be personalized to your individual style and be the perfect accessory that won't take away from your dress. I got mine at Walmart, so you definitely don't have to go all out!
Step Four: Have loose curls or braids
To achieve a bohemian look, when styling your hair think loose. Do loose, flowy curls or a braid that is pulled apart. This will look effortless and add a softness to your ensemble. If you have your hair too perfect and styled it will take away from the overall look you are trying to achieve.
Step Five: Plan poses
My mom had a lot of screenshots of poses she wanted me to do just taken from Pinterest (like the one below!) and these are a great way for having a direction you want the photoshoot to go in. Having some standard poses and ideas will help you keep the overall boho & maternity look. And if you are anything like me, you may experience pregnancy brain too often to remember what you are wanting!
We are so overjoyed for this little girl to join our family next month! I can't wait for her to be here finally, but I have really enjoyed this pregnancy more than I ever thought I would. It has been a breeze and I have loved becoming a mom. When did you do your maternity photos? I would love to hear what you wore!
If you are still looking for the perfect dress for your maternity shoot, or any time in your pregnancy, I highly recommend this one from Pink Blush Maternity! They have other colors available too.
Have an amazing weekend everyone, we have an exciting announcement coming very soon!
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Oh sweet summertime! A time filled with family, road trips, and yummy snacks and we are lucky enough to experience all of this at once. Every summer we plan trips to visit both of our families. We are both from different neighboring states, which makes the summertime filled with long hours in the car.
Our first year of marriage, this was a dreaded road trip I'll be honest! But, this has quickly become my favorite time spent with my husband.
Spending an entire day or two in the car together has been a great summer memory and ritual for us. We talk, laugh, sing, and of course you can't forget the many pit stops you make along the way! With me being pregnant this summer, we take a lot more stops than usual. Sure it adds a few hours to the trip, but it's good to get out and stretch your legs to keep your energy up.
With a baby on the way, I've been looking forward to stocking up on yummy snacks for the trip. We stopped and grabbed Snyder’s of Hanover® Pretzels and Cape Cod® Potato Chips, because I wanted to be mindful of what I'm snacking on and choose healthier, better for you treats. We are both huge snackers, and love to try out different flavors together! What is your favorite Cape Cod Potato Chip flavor? (we are loving the salt and vinegar!)
Also, you can enter the sweepstakes and win; just for sharing your favorite snacks! Rules and entry is below!
During our road trips, I realized this is the last trip we will be taking before we are a family of three. It's kind of bittersweet because I love this precious time with my hubby, but also very exciting because we will now have our little one in the back with Pepper and making even more family memories!
I am looking forward to our future summer road trips and all the new memories we will create with our growing family! I see a lot of pit stops, fun car memories, and yummy snacks in our future and I couldn't be more excited.
I would love to hear below if you are taking any trips this summer and also what your favorite snack is!
I am a serial over planner and I am okay with it. I am now 31 weeks and I took this weekend to pack my hospital bag! I have been itching to do it and feel relieved that it is one less thing I'll have to worry about. As a first time mom, I have received mountains of advice on what I should pack, what they wish they would've left, and so on. This is a time that is so specific to you, so pack what you feel you will need at the hospital! I didn't want to pack a whole bunch because that's more stuff we have to carry back home with Baby S in tow. Here are my essentials!
- mini toiletries
-hairbrush and hair ties
- nursing night gown
- delivery/nursing robe c/o Pink Blush Maternity
- tank top
- nursing bra
- lounge pants c/o Pink Blush Maternity
- slippers and socks
- going home outfit
for the stay:
- baby book (to capture hand and foot prints!)
- phone charger
- camera and charger
- washable nipple pads
Here is a free downloadable checklist that you can use to pack your hospital bag! You can download it here:
Downloadable Hospital Bag Checklist for Mom
When did you/ are you packing your hospital bag? I would love to hear what your essentials are!
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